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The 79-Prompt Library

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79 prompts

#01TTC

Prompt 1: The Cycle Pattern Decoder

You've been tracking your cycle for 2-3 months and you want a clearer read on your actual fertile window, ovulation timing, and any patterns you'd want to bring to a fertility appointment.

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#02TTC

Prompt 2: The Two-Week Wait Sanity Check

You're in the luteal phase (the 10-14 days between ovulation and your expected period) and you're symptom-spotting, Googling every twinge, and losing your mind. You want a calm, structured read on what you're feeling.

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#03TTC

Prompt 3: The "I Think I'm Positive, Now What?" Plan

You just got a positive pregnancy test (or a faint line, or you're not sure what you're seeing). You need a calm, hour-by-hour plan for the next 7 days.

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#04TTC

Prompt 4: The "What Actually Matters" TTC Optimizer

You've been reading fertility blogs, listening to podcasts, and now you're overwhelmed by all the things you're "supposed to" do. You want a no-BS list of what actually moves the needle vs. what's noise.

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#05TTC

Prompt 5: The "Tell My Partner" Conversation Script

You want to bring up trying to conceive (or a fertility concern) with your partner and you're not sure how to start. You want language that's clear, kind, and not a monologue.

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#06Trimester 1

Prompt 6: The Symptom Triage Screener

You have a new symptom and you want a quick read on whether to wait it out, call your OB, or go to the ER. Without the doom-Googling spiral.

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#07Trimester 1

Prompt 7: The "Can I Eat This?" Safety Checker

You're staring at a menu / your fridge / a pregnancy food list online and you want a clear yes/no/maybe on a specific food.

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#08Trimester 1

Prompt 8: The Morning Sickness Survival Plan

You're nauseous, vomiting, or unable to eat, and you want a structured plan for the next 1-2 weeks. Not "eat crackers" — actual steps.

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#09Trimester 1

Prompt 9: First Prenatal Appointment Prep

Your first prenatal appointment is coming up (usually 8-10 weeks) and you want to walk in with a smart list of questions, your full history ready, and not forget the things that matter.

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#10Trimester 1

Prompt 10: First Trimester Anxiety Re-Anchor

You're between appointments, not showing yet, can't feel the baby, and every moment between "I might lose this" and "everything is fine" feels terrifying. You want a 5-minute re-anchor.

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#11Trimester 1

Prompt 11: The "When Do I Announce?" Decision Framework

You want to tell people you're pregnant but you're stuck between "waiting for the safe zone" and wanting support now. You want a framework, not a rule.

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#12Trimester 1

Prompt 12: The Exercise Modifier

You had a workout routine pre-pregnancy and you want to know what to keep, what to modify, and what to drop. You don't want to "play it safe" so far you lose your fitness.

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#13Trimester 1

Prompt 13: The Prenatal Vitamin Check

You're staring at 15 prenatal vitamin options and you don't know what's marketing vs. what's actually in your body. You want a clear "what to look for" framework.

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#14Trimester 1

Prompt 14: The "Tell Work" Disclosure Script

You need to tell your employer you're pregnant (for accommodations, leave planning, or just to cover yourself) and you want to do it without underselling or oversharing.

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#15Trimester 1

Prompt 15: The Miscarriage Aftercare Plan

You're experiencing a miscarriage (or have just been told you're having one). You need an immediate, hour-by-hour plan for the next 7 days — physical, emotional, and logistical.

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#16Trimester 2

Prompt 16: The Anatomy Scan Prep Sheet

Your 20-week anatomy scan is coming up. You want to walk in knowing what they're looking for, what questions to ask, and what to do if something unexpected shows up.

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#17Trimester 2

Prompt 17: The Registry Trimmer

You have a registry list from somewhere (Babylist, Target, Amazon) and it has 200+ items. You want a lean list of what you actually need, organized by what matters most.

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#18Trimester 2

Prompt 18: The Gender/Health Disappointment Reframe

You found out the sex (or got a soft-marker / diagnosis news) and you're feeling disappointed, guilty about the disappointment, and not sure how to process it.

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#19Trimester 2

Prompt 19: The Glucose Screening Decision Helper

You're approaching the 24-28 week glucose screening (for gestational diabetes) and you want to understand the options: 1-step vs. 2-step test, what GD actually means, and what to do if you screen positive.

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#20Trimester 2

Prompt 20: The "Is Sex Safe?" + Comfort Reformer

You want to know if sex is safe at your stage, and you want practical positions/ideas for a body that changes every week.

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#21Trimester 2

Prompt 21: Pelvic Floor PT — Why + How to Start

You keep hearing "do your Kegels" but you also hear "Kegels can make things worse." You want a real explanation of pelvic floor PT in pregnancy and how to access it.

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#22Trimester 2

Prompt 22: The Maternity Leave Planning Sheet

You want to plan your leave: how long, when to start, what to tell your employer, what state/country benefits you're entitled to, and how to financially plan.

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#23Trimester 2

Prompt 23: The GBS Test Decision Helper

The Group B Strep test (35-37 weeks) is approaching and you want to understand what it is, what positive means, your options, and how to advocate for what you want.

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#24Trimester 2

Prompt 24: The Baby Name Decision Helper

You and your partner have name lists that don't overlap and you're stuck. Or you love a name and they're lukewarm. Or you want a framework beyond "we'll know when we see them."

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#25Trimester 2

Prompt 25: Baby Shower Decision + Plan

You want a baby shower (or don't, but the family pressure is real). You want a plan that's actually useful, not Pinterest-perfect.

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#26Trimester 2

Prompt 26: The Round Ligament / Pelvic Pain Decoder

You're having sharp, surprising pains in your groin, sides, hips, or pubic bone and you want to know what's normal and what's not.

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#27Trimester 2

Prompt 27: The Pregnancy Identity Loss Re-Anchor

You used to be a person with hobbies, a career, a body you recognized. Now you feel like an incubator and you're losing yourself.

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#28Trimester 3

Prompt 28: The Birth Plan Drafter

You want to write a birth plan that actually gets read by your care team. Not a 5-page manifesto. A clear, useful, decision-making document.

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#29Trimester 3

Prompt 29: The Hospital Bag Checklist (Real, Not Pinterest)

You're packing your hospital bag and you want a list based on what people actually use, not what looks good in a YouTube video.

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#30Trimester 3

Prompt 30: The "Is This Labor?" Real-Time Decider

You're having contractions / pressure / cramping and you don't know if it's real labor, Braxton Hicks, or something else. You want a clear decision tree, not another list.

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#31Trimester 3

Prompt 31: The Kick Counts Framework

You're past 28 weeks and you keep hearing "do kick counts" but no one explains what that actually means, when to worry, and what to do.

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#32Trimester 3

Prompt 32: The Induction Decision Helper

Your OB is recommending an induction and you want to understand why, what your options are, and how to make the decision that fits your values.

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#33Trimester 3

Prompt 33: The C-Section Decision + Recovery Plan

You're facing a planned or possible C-section and you want a clear plan: how to decide, what to expect, and how to recover well.

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#34Trimester 3

Prompt 34: The Nesting Instinct vs. Anxiety Spiral

You can't stop cleaning, organizing, buying things, or researching. You're losing sleep. You're either productive-as-heck or spinning. You want to know which one it is.

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#35Trimester 3

Prompt 35: The Pre-Eclampsia Self-Monitor

You want to know the warning signs of preeclampsia, when to worry, and what to do. Especially if you have risk factors (high BP, first pregnancy, family history, etc.).

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#36Trimester 3

Prompt 36: The Pediatrician + Newborn Decisions Picker

You need to pick a pediatrician before birth (you'll see them 2-3 days after hospital discharge). Plus the dozens of other newborn decisions: vaccines, vitamin K, eye ointment, circumcision, etc.

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#37Trimester 3

Prompt 37: The Postpartum Support Plan (Meals, Help, Boundaries)

You want to set up the postpartum help before the baby arrives — meals, household help, visitor boundaries — so you don't have to organize it while sleep-deprived.

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#38Trimester 3

Prompt 38: The "I Can't Sleep" Late Pregnancy Survival

You can't sleep. You're 35+ weeks. You're uncomfortable, anxious, peeing every 90 min, and dreading how tired you'll be for labor.

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#39Trimester 3

Prompt 39: The "I'm Due in 2 Weeks" Final Prep List

You're 36-38 weeks and you want a real "get your life in order" list — not 50 things, but the ones that actually matter before baby arrives.

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#40Birth & Hospital

Prompt 40: The Labor Coping Toolkit

You're in labor (or close to it) and you need a menu of coping techniques organized by stage, intensity, and what works best when.

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#41Birth & Hospital

Prompt 41: The "Decision in the Room" Real-Time Helper

Your provider is offering a procedure or intervention (epidural, Pitocin, AROM, forceps, C-section) and you have ~60 seconds to decide. You need a quick framework.

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#42Birth & Hospital

Prompt 42: The First Feed Helper (Breast, Bottle, or Both)

Baby is here, you're trying to figure out the first feed, and there's a lot of pressure from multiple directions. You want clear, judgment-free guidance.

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#43Birth & Hospital

Prompt 43: The First 72 Hours Post-Birth Plan

Baby is here, you're in the hospital (or just home from birth center), and the first 72 hours are a blur. You want a structured hour-by-hour survival guide.

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#44Birth & Hospital

Prompt 44: The "Hospital Stay" Power Map

You're in the hospital, things are happening to you and the baby, and you want to know what to ask, when to push back, and how to make the most of the 24-48 hour stay.

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#45Birth & Hospital

Prompt 45: The "That Wasn't What I Expected" Birth Processing

Something happened during birth that you're not processing well — an emergency, a loss of control, a fear, a feeling of being unseen, or just "it didn't go how I planned." You want to start processing now, not in 6 months.

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#46Birth & Hospital

Prompt 46: The Newborn First 7 Days (At Home)

You're home from the hospital with a newborn and you have no idea what a normal day looks like. You want a loose, day-by-day framework.

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#47Birth & Hospital

Prompt 47: The Breastfeeding Pain Troubleshooter

Breastfeeding hurts, baby isn't transferring, supply is unclear, and you need a real troubleshooting guide — not "it shouldn't hurt if the latch is right."

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#48Postpartum 0–3 mo

Prompt 48: The "Why Won't Baby Sleep?" Decoder

Baby won't sleep, you're exhausted, and you're getting contradictory advice. You want a clear framework for what's actually happening developmentally.

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#49Postpartum 0–3 mo

Prompt 49: The Postpartum Mood Disorder Check-In

You want to know if what you're feeling is normal "baby blues" or something more. You want a real screening, not "you'll be fine."

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#50Postpartum 0–3 mo

Prompt 50: The Partner "I'm Doing More" Conversation

You feel like you're doing all the work and resentment is building. You want a real conversation, not a blow-up fight.

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#51Postpartum 0–3 mo

Prompt 51: The Pediatrician Visit Prep Sheet

You have a pediatrician appointment coming up (usually 2-3 days after discharge, 2 weeks, 1 month, 2 months). You want to walk in prepared.

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#52Postpartum 0–3 mo

Prompt 52: The "Won't Stop Crying" Decoder

Baby is crying inconsolably and you're losing your mind. You want a real checklist of causes + safe soothing options.

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#53Postpartum 0–3 mo

Prompt 53: The "Should I Pump?" Decision Helper

You're breastfeeding and wondering if/when to introduce pumping — for flexibility, to measure intake, to build a stash, or to share feeds with your partner.

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#54Postpartum 0–3 mo

Prompt 54: The "Introducing a Bottle" Guide

You want to introduce a bottle (for partner feeds, return to work, or just flexibility) and you want to do it without sabotaging breastfeeding or confusing baby.

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#55Postpartum 0–3 mo

Prompt 55: The "I Don't Feel Bonded" Re-Anchor

You expected instant love and instead you feel like you're taking care of a stranger. You're scared something is wrong with you.

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#56Postpartum 0–3 mo

Prompt 56: The "When Can I Exercise?" Guide

You want to move your body again but you don't know what's safe, when, and how to start without making things worse.

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#57Postpartum 0–3 mo

Prompt 57: The "Too Many Visitors" Boundary Plan

People keep coming over, holding the baby, giving unsolicited advice, and you can't recover. You need a real boundary plan.

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#58Postpartum 3–12 mo

Prompt 58: The Starting Solids Roadmap

Baby is approaching 6 months and you're wondering about the actual start, what to feed, what to avoid, and the choking vs. gagging distinction.

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#59Postpartum 3–12 mo

Prompt 59: The 4-Month Sleep Regression (or Any Regression)

Baby was sleeping okay and suddenly it's terrible. You want to know if it's a real "regression," what to do, and whether to do sleep training now.

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#60Postpartum 3–12 mo

Prompt 60: The Teething Survival Guide

Teething is wrecking everyone. You want to know what's actually happening, what helps, what doesn't, and what's safe.

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#61Postpartum 3–12 mo

Prompt 61: The Childcare Decision Matrix

You need to make a childcare decision (return to work, can't do it alone anymore, want socialization) and you want a real framework for evaluating options.

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#62Postpartum 3–12 mo

Prompt 62: The Milestone "When to Worry" Guide

You're tracking milestones and worried baby isn't hitting them. You want a real "when to wait, when to ask" framework.

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#63Postpartum 3–12 mo

Prompt 63: The Screen Time Decision

You want to know the actual evidence on screen time for babies, what the AAP really says, and how to make peace with your own use.

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#64Postpartum 3–12 mo

Prompt 64: The Vaccine Decision (Real Evidence, Not Politics)

You want to understand the vaccine schedule, what's actually in each vaccine, the real risks, and how to make an informed decision (whether to follow, delay, or selectively follow).

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#65Postpartum 3–12 mo

Prompt 65: The Return-to-Work Plan

You're going back to work and you want a plan that covers the practical (pumping, childcare) and the emotional (grief, identity).

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#66Postpartum 3–12 mo

Prompt 66: The Discipline Question (Ages 6-18 months)

Baby is becoming a tiny person with opinions and you don't know what's normal, what's discipline, and what's actually teaching.

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#67Postpartum 3–12 mo

Prompt 67: The "I Don't Love My Partner the Same" Conversation

You love your partner but the relationship feels different — distant, resentful, like co-parents instead of lovers. You want to address it before it becomes a crisis.

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#68Return to Work

Prompt 68: The Pumping-at-Work Logistics Playbook

You're going back to work and need a real pumping plan. Not "just pump when you can."

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#69Return to Work

Prompt 69: The Working Mom Guilt Re-Anchor

You're back at work and drowning in guilt. You want a real read on the evidence, not "kids are resilient" platitudes.

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#70Return to Work

Prompt 70: The Second Baby Decision Framework

You're trying to decide if/when to have a second baby. You want a real decision framework, not "you'll know."

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#71Return to Work

Prompt 71: The "I Want to Be Recognized" Negotiation

You're back at work and feel invisible, passed over, or underpaid. You want a real negotiation framework.

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#72Return to Work

Prompt 72: The "Should I Stay Home?" Decision

You're considering leaving work to be home. You want a real decision framework, not a permission slip.

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#73Return to Work

Prompt 73: The Co-Parent or Single Parent Plan

You're navigating separation, divorce, or solo parenthood and need a real plan for the practical, financial, and emotional realities.

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#74Return to Work

Prompt 74: The Pumping Weaning Plan

You're ready to stop pumping (or breastfeeding) and want to do it without pain, clogs, mastitis, or guilt.

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#75Emergency

Prompt 75: The "Baby Has a Fever" Decision Tree

Baby has a fever and you need to know what to do RIGHT NOW. Including when to go to the ER.

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#76Emergency

Prompt 76: The Choking Response Play-by-Play

Baby or child is choking (or you think they are). You have seconds to act. This is the prompt you read in advance, but here for in-the-moment reference.

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#77Emergency

Prompt 77: The Allergic Reaction Triage

Baby/child is having an allergic reaction and you need to know if it's anaphylaxis, what to do, and when to call 911.

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#78Emergency

Prompt 78: The "My Baby Fell" Decision Tree

Baby/child fell and you need to know if it's an ER, urgent care, pediatrician, or watch-at-home situation.

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#79Emergency

Prompt 79: The Mental Health Crisis Plan

You (or your partner) are in a mental health crisis — postpartum depression, anxiety, OCD, psychosis, or thoughts of harming yourself or your baby. You need immediate help.

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